Proposing For the Second Time? Consider a Prenup!
Entering into a second marriage can be easier. After all, you have learned what issues to spot and what to prioritize in a relationship. A prenup can certainly ensure peace of mind for you and your future spouse. Learn more about the advantages below — and if you would like to come in and discuss it, we are here.
If you’re considering proposing for the second time, you may want to consider a prenup.
For those of us who have been married once already, there may be anticipated wedding jitters associated with tying the knot for the “second time around.” And while you are madly in love, you also must remember that marriage is a financial partnership that comes with legal implications.
Some statistics show that second and third marriages are more likely to end in divorce than first marriages. Further, up to 25 percent of marriages end because of financial issues.
Therefore, as you plan the most romantic and memorable way to propose, it is critical to consider what your financial union will look like, and as a part of that, how you will discuss sometime soon, the prenuptial agreement.
Why You Should Consider a Prenup If You Are Proposing For the Second Time
A prenuptial agreement, commonly referred to as a “prenup,” is a legal contract entered into before marriage or civil union that is unique to each couple, but typically addresses financial issues including division of property and spousal support in the event the marriage breaks down.
When is the right time to discuss the prenuptial agreement? It is not when the wedding plans are made, nor as you are walking down the aisle. The time to have the discussion about the prenuptial agreement is well in advance of the wedding and prior to venues being secured, the band being paid, and invitations sent.
A discussion about the prenuptial agreement can be extremely romantic. After all, you are now taking another step toward committing yourself completely to another person — in this case, being honest and transparent about important and sensitive issues such as finances.
With a prenuptial agreement in mind, it is important to have a complete understanding of your partner’s financial situation, your own financial situation, and also to be sure that you and your future spouse are honest and transparent about financial expectations.
Another important aspect of discussing a prenuptial agreement is the realization that with marriage comes planning. That means being honest about career goals, debt such as school loans and credit cards, expectations about child-rearing and future inheritances and assets accumulated from prior marriages.
If you are thinking of proposing for the second time, there are some things you should keep in mind. Here are a few financial scenarios that are common to consider with respect to second marriages, and a few related questions to discuss with your soon-to-be spouse:
- If you or your future spouse are entering the relationship with children from prior marriages, there are many issues to consider, such as payment of child support and college obligations for those children. Some topics to discuss include: Will you be contributing to such expenses if your spouse has children from a prior marriage, or will your spouse be utilizing Separate Property assets to pay same?
- How will you deal with your spouse’s obligations to pay alimony to a former spouse?
- Does your future spouse have an obligation to maintain life insurance for a former spouse?
- Is your future spouse responsible to pay certain expenses for a former marital residence?
Issues will vary widely for each person and couple, but the common theme remains the same: be honest and transparent.
While hindsight is 20/20, the advantage of entering into a second marriage is that you have learned what issues to spot and how to ensure the peace of mind that a prenup can bring to you and your future spouse.
Protect your assets when you remarry. Our experienced divorce attorney in Boynton Beach serving South Florida will help you navigate this process with ease and answer your questions about a prenup. Let us be your legal team. Call us today at 561.430.4121 and join our Facebook here.